I came across a sermon by a preacher I'm not familiar with that I quite enjoyed.
I've got it linked here from the point where I think it gets interesting. I highly recommend that all Christian men listen to it. I have a lot of points to share that overlap with this theme, but there are more important things in my queue. Suffice it to say that there are so many married Christian men whose ignorance or abdication of their role has enabled their wives to become quite monstrous and do terrible things. It's a huge problem.