0:00:00 - 0:00:30 There are many more high quality women than there are high quality men. Why is that? Well, in short, the reason is that women want men, they can look up to and they score men on mostly Pareto distributed attributes and what that means. You should definitely know what the Peredo distribution is. You can 0:00:30 - 0:01:02 look it up. What that means though is that there are far fewer people with better than you have on those kinds of attributes. So what's an example of a Peredo distributed attribute? Courage? The number of people that have more courage than you do is going to be less than the number of people who have 0:01:01 - 0:01:30 less courage than you do. And this is basically true anywhere you land on that attribute. So if you're a woman who wants a man who's more courageous than you, there are fewer men with that quality than there are women with that quality based on where you are. And it doesn't matter where you are the same 0:01:30 - 0:02:06 goes for, for other things that they're interested in that are peret or dis distributed, honesty, face wisdom, sincerity, et cetera. There are attributes that women are interested in that are normal distributed such as beauty and IQ. However, even in these attributes, there are fewer men than women who 0:02:05 - 0:02:35 have greater than she has in those attributes, whatever the variation may be between them all. So for example, I don't believe that women are as intent on finding a man that's more attractive as they are finding a man who, for example, makes more money, that one's Peredo whatever the variation may be 0:02:34 - 0:03:01 in aggregate, it's very clear that what a woman is looking for in a high quality man is much rarer than what a man is looking for in a high quality woman. And so what are those attributes? Well, high among them is going to be age and age is something that's obviously plentiful in the population. Every 0:03:01 - 0:03:30 single person who makes it past 18 was once 18. Beauty men absolutely care about. Looks interestingly, the research shows that they don't care about this more than women. Do women care a lot more about it than they let on, but it's really no different. So that one's kind of a wash. But so, so far we're 0:03:30 - 0:03:57 dealing with things that are abundant, relatively speaking. Another thing a guy will tell you is he's looking for someone who's not a terrible person. That's not exactly a high bar, right? A guy is going to be interested in qualities that are preto distributed, but they're massively less important for 0:03:57 - 0:04:22 him than they are a woman. He's not looking for someone who's better than him in those ways. He's basically just, just looking for someone that can abide with him. A person who makes life better than it would be without her. Comparatively speaking, that is a very low bar. The kicker is the higher the 0:04:21 - 0:04:53 quality. The woman is the more exaggerated. This shortage of men will be because most of the attributes by which a woman qualifies a man as high quality or Pareto distributed. So the higher she is on those curves, the the rarer a man will be who advances beyond that. This is a reality that any woman 0:04:53 - 0:05:16 who's interested in finding a high quality man is going to have to contend with the good news is that most human beings are absolute doofuses. Therefore, if you're a woman seeking a high quality man, this is not exactly a highly competitive arena. If you understand what you're looking for and you're 0:05:16 - 0:00:00 willing to do what it takes to get such a man, it's a piece of cake compared to if the general female population understood the worth of such a thing and was going after it too, then it would be really, really hard. But in your case, you're very early to the game. And as long as you're young enough, 0:00:00 - 0:05:47 there's absolutely a window for you to find a much higher quality man than the average. So good luck.